Reminiscing

SEX...

["You don't just have sex with anyone on the street"]
["You don't just have sex and tell other's that you just did it with him/her"]
["You don't just have sex and abandon that bitch, when she tells you she's pregnant with yours"]
["You don't just have sex cause the cutie you met at a club buys you a drink"]
["You don't just have sex when suddenly your genitals chose to take over your brains"]
["You don't just have sex like it's a norm for adults and that's what they do"]

I may not be of much experience when we talk about SEX... But being in a mix school ever since I was 7 till 20 and mixing around with guys and girls, makes me understand more about them....
When I was in poly, I got to know of many friends who do regularly have casual sex with the opposite gender... Well at the state that I was in I was far, far apart from where they were... and at time I don't quite understand those terms they normally use to replace certain of those XXXX words... But of course I still tried to do more research and talked to those who have already done it and gather information on what will happen so on and so forth.....

POINT OF VIEW FROM E LADIES
To my disbelief, many of those who have already done it, actually shared their sexual experiences with me... Their reasons for doing it could sometimes be so silly
eg from some of my girl friends,
-"We were so horny and since we've not tried these positions, why not?"
-"It happened on that very instance, I just can't control myself..."
-"At first, I'm not sure even if I should call him my boyfriend but to please him I did what he told me to and later on I got too addicted to SEX... I kept on asking for more... So instead we became no more than SEX-partners... I'll call him only if I needed it and he'll call me if he needed it from him"
-"We were just sitting around and hanging out at he's place then suddenly he just pounce on me... The next moment I knew my clothes were unbuttoned and my pants were unzipped... Since I love him I didn't want to say STOP"

You know these group of people who have done it gets quite offensive when you start asking them
-'why you did it?'
-'aren't you afraid?'
-'what were you thinking?'
-'don't you wanna keep it till you've found the right one?'

Well sometimes, to protect their own asses, they'll reason out with you saying
-"There are so many girls out there also who have lost their virginity... I'm not the only one"
-"Oh you know guys nowadays are more open-minded not like in the past"
-"Alah don't be so worried he wore a condom... I'm the least worried"

POINT OF VIEW OF THE MENS
I must be quite lucky because on the topic of SEX, my boyfriend plays quite a big part and makes me understand guys so much easier sometimes...

Guys have sex for the most SIMPLEST REASON
-"I'm HORNY!"
-"She's so hot, if I have her, it completes me...."

But again it all comes back to guys being simple-minded....
Try asking them this question....
-"Do you wanna get married to that bitch you just banged at the hotel earlier?"
They will still say "No... SEX was great.... but I still want a good lady that makes a perfectly good wife..."

So you see the big difference... Guys do it because they want to enjoy the 1 hour sexual pleasure but girls do it sometimes with a totally different meaning to it all...

These are my opinions... Don't make my opinion your opinion because you and me.... We are 2 different person....

I believe sex
["Sex should be kept till the right person, appears"]
["Sex should just be between you and him/her"]
["Sex should only be with the person you have emotional connections"]

It defeats the purpose when God gives us brains to think, we're just acting like animals we drive ourselves to our sexual needs and we totally deprive ourselves from being what God created us HUMANS....